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Resentment toward son and him having a baby on the way
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<blockquote data-quote="detachingmother" data-source="post: 682013" data-attributes="member: 20063"><p>LOL! That's what I was wondering. That's why I was hoping you would come back around. I like more how you are handling the baby situation, than how I am handling it this far...I've already learned some things from you. You are way ahead of me on the baby stuff...lol. I love the way you are handling it all...not sure I have it in me to do as well as you, but hoping so...if that makes sense.</p><p></p><p>My Son, not to make light of him being more productive or anything, bc even though he was working, he was still doing drugs and other ignorant things--heading down the wrong path...to jail eventually. He was employing other people and building his own business up very fast, and very productive. girlfriend truly did/does see him as a money man. When she hit him in the mall, it was because she was mad that he wasn't buying her what else she happened to want that day (the day was shopping for her on Son's dime, before he even knew she was pregnant, but DID know she had just "cheated" with another man). He got mad, ripped off an expensive necklace he bought her, off her neck, told her he wasn't just her "meal" ticket...that's when she started punching him, security called cops, not sure if they saw him take the necklace of her neck, but they said she was aggressor. Yep, he is at fault too, for even choosing to be with her...I hate to say it, but he's "whipped" by her...she must have a golden...you know what...I wrote him recently and told him what I thought about her...told him do not even come to me, when she doesn't change and he ends up back where he started.</p><p></p><p>Can't wait to see how she reacts when he gets back out and he has to fork over his money to fines, tickets, re-building his biz, probation and/or parole, now has to go out and find another home, with his "bad" felony record...yah, she's blind to it all...She's already said, she only will live with him if he can provide a NICE home in a NICE neighborhood, which he could afford, in a few months after release, but very hard to find, given his record. She will never be happy and this will be Son's undoing, because I don't think he will ever quit trying to please her....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="detachingmother, post: 682013, member: 20063"] LOL! That's what I was wondering. That's why I was hoping you would come back around. I like more how you are handling the baby situation, than how I am handling it this far...I've already learned some things from you. You are way ahead of me on the baby stuff...lol. I love the way you are handling it all...not sure I have it in me to do as well as you, but hoping so...if that makes sense. My Son, not to make light of him being more productive or anything, bc even though he was working, he was still doing drugs and other ignorant things--heading down the wrong path...to jail eventually. He was employing other people and building his own business up very fast, and very productive. girlfriend truly did/does see him as a money man. When she hit him in the mall, it was because she was mad that he wasn't buying her what else she happened to want that day (the day was shopping for her on Son's dime, before he even knew she was pregnant, but DID know she had just "cheated" with another man). He got mad, ripped off an expensive necklace he bought her, off her neck, told her he wasn't just her "meal" ticket...that's when she started punching him, security called cops, not sure if they saw him take the necklace of her neck, but they said she was aggressor. Yep, he is at fault too, for even choosing to be with her...I hate to say it, but he's "whipped" by her...she must have a golden...you know what...I wrote him recently and told him what I thought about her...told him do not even come to me, when she doesn't change and he ends up back where he started. Can't wait to see how she reacts when he gets back out and he has to fork over his money to fines, tickets, re-building his biz, probation and/or parole, now has to go out and find another home, with his "bad" felony record...yah, she's blind to it all...She's already said, she only will live with him if he can provide a NICE home in a NICE neighborhood, which he could afford, in a few months after release, but very hard to find, given his record. She will never be happy and this will be Son's undoing, because I don't think he will ever quit trying to please her.... [/QUOTE]
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