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<blockquote data-quote="BTCM" data-source="post: 25437" data-attributes="member: 3513"><p>I was going through and reading some of these posts. I am struggling with similiar issues. We don't have a clear diagnosis yet. Which is frustrating in itself. But have had some thrown out there. I was reading Janna's post, and I would love to start doing charts for him. Here comes the buts, number 1 I am not an organized person. So I start feeling overwhelmed at the thought of this process. Because I want them to be just right. And also sometimes I question if I'm a strong enough person to follow through. The end result sounds nice. It's everything in between that worries me. It sounds like you have to be very organized and ready for a battle? How do you decide which things you are going to tackle first? His physcologist suggested putting $5 in change in a jar. Everytime he says no, take two quarters out, see who gets the $5 at the end of the day. All of this sounds so odd to me, when I was a kid I was just expected to do the right thing. I guess I have to admit he is not an average child and there are special modifications he needs. I'm finding admitting there is really something wrong more difficult than I thought. It has been a roller coaster since he was 3. He is now 8 and we are still not sure what is going on with him. Sorry if I'm jumping all over. I guess I am just trying to figure this whole thing out. And trying to come to terms with it. Any advice would be appreciated. C's Mom</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BTCM, post: 25437, member: 3513"] I was going through and reading some of these posts. I am struggling with similiar issues. We don't have a clear diagnosis yet. Which is frustrating in itself. But have had some thrown out there. I was reading Janna's post, and I would love to start doing charts for him. Here comes the buts, number 1 I am not an organized person. So I start feeling overwhelmed at the thought of this process. Because I want them to be just right. And also sometimes I question if I'm a strong enough person to follow through. The end result sounds nice. It's everything in between that worries me. It sounds like you have to be very organized and ready for a battle? How do you decide which things you are going to tackle first? His physcologist suggested putting $5 in change in a jar. Everytime he says no, take two quarters out, see who gets the $5 at the end of the day. All of this sounds so odd to me, when I was a kid I was just expected to do the right thing. I guess I have to admit he is not an average child and there are special modifications he needs. I'm finding admitting there is really something wrong more difficult than I thought. It has been a roller coaster since he was 3. He is now 8 and we are still not sure what is going on with him. Sorry if I'm jumping all over. I guess I am just trying to figure this whole thing out. And trying to come to terms with it. Any advice would be appreciated. C's Mom [/QUOTE]
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