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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 681210" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I wonder if he might not need more than an NA meeting. Is he still on your insurance? Do you have an inpatient benefit?</p><p></p><p>Is there extended family with whom he can stay? Is there somebody who can come and stay with your two sons? To me, it seems a lot to put on your younger son.</p><p></p><p>I understand completely how you must feel about boarding that plane.</p><p></p><p>But the thing is to face that you do not have the solutions here, except to decide what you will fund and the conditions he might live in your home, and not. Which, actually, is a lot of control, if you use it.</p><p></p><p>I think that it is time for you to make some decisions. And think about whether or not allowing him to remain at your home, with you funding his education is giving him a mixed message. Think about whether or not you need to confront the drug use as the most important and essential thing. College can be achieved once he deals with this.</p><p></p><p>You have some choices to make, I think.</p><p></p><p>I wish it were different for you. It is not.</p><p></p><p>Take care. Keep posting. Stay with us. Please.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 681210, member: 18958"] I wonder if he might not need more than an NA meeting. Is he still on your insurance? Do you have an inpatient benefit? Is there extended family with whom he can stay? Is there somebody who can come and stay with your two sons? To me, it seems a lot to put on your younger son. I understand completely how you must feel about boarding that plane. But the thing is to face that you do not have the solutions here, except to decide what you will fund and the conditions he might live in your home, and not. Which, actually, is a lot of control, if you use it. I think that it is time for you to make some decisions. And think about whether or not allowing him to remain at your home, with you funding his education is giving him a mixed message. Think about whether or not you need to confront the drug use as the most important and essential thing. College can be achieved once he deals with this. You have some choices to make, I think. I wish it were different for you. It is not. Take care. Keep posting. Stay with us. Please. COPA [/QUOTE]
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