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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 630551" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>D,</p><p>that is a rough night. I hate when I am reduced to participating in a screaming match. I think you have done the right stuff all along, and the things you said are true. Happily for you she is making the next step easier..you don't have to give her deadlines or tell her to move out, she is doing it on her own.</p><p> </p><p>You will both be happier and have a better relationship when she is out of the house. </p><p> </p><p>Let her go. Wish her luck. Don't let her back out and offer to stay. </p><p> </p><p>I'm curious about the grands' reaction, although it doesn't really pertain. will they let her live with them (which would be unfortunate and delay her growing up, but is common...AND...most importantly...is not in your control).</p><p> </p><p>Good luck and hugs to you. Sounds like things are moving along as they should. 19 year olds not in school need to work. Often their urge to independence is not as great as their urge to work..it just goes that way. This will sort itself out.</p><p> </p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 630551, member: 17269"] D, that is a rough night. I hate when I am reduced to participating in a screaming match. I think you have done the right stuff all along, and the things you said are true. Happily for you she is making the next step easier..you don't have to give her deadlines or tell her to move out, she is doing it on her own. You will both be happier and have a better relationship when she is out of the house. Let her go. Wish her luck. Don't let her back out and offer to stay. I'm curious about the grands' reaction, although it doesn't really pertain. will they let her live with them (which would be unfortunate and delay her growing up, but is common...AND...most importantly...is not in your control). Good luck and hugs to you. Sounds like things are moving along as they should. 19 year olds not in school need to work. Often their urge to independence is not as great as their urge to work..it just goes that way. This will sort itself out. Echo [/QUOTE]
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