The youth group my difficult child attends left to go on there annual ski trip Thursday afternoon. First he has missed. He has brought it up a few times so he is feeling the pain which is good. Today he gets to go do a S.W.E.A.T. day. It's raining at about 50 degrees outside so I don't think he will be doing much sweating today. husband just left to take him, they are meeting in the lobby of the jail. Guess I am just being my normal mom self but I am worried about him. I get to go to my last "parent meeting" today, it's cold and raining and I don't want to go, but go I must. This is all just one more item behind us with all this mess. I truly hope he gets the picture and decides not to get in trouble again. He still has to pay 182 bucks in restitution which he will work for. Next week I am going to call his probation officer and set up a day for him to have a "tour" of the adult jail. That will be for him to see if that is really the place he wants to end up. Anyone have kids that took that tour? How did it affect them?