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Rude adult daugther returned home with her baby is disrepectful rude and lazy
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 676393" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wow. What a mess and I'm so sorry.</p><p></p><p>How old is your daughter, does she work, and why did you let her come home? If she doesn't take care of the baby, you can call CPS and maybe get custody yourself, if you want it. She should not be taking over YOUR house, YOUR sanctuary by being rude. Hey, I'd let an adult child with a baby come home too, but only if she were helpful, respectful and took care of her own child and paid rent.</p><p></p><p>It is baloney that she feels she has the right to live off of your good heart and yet tell you how to talk to her. She is a guest in your house. You don't need to walk on eggshells...it is she who needs to learn some respect or leave.</p><p></p><p>Others will come along. I am guessing your daughter is probably into drugs and/or other criminal activity and that the baby is unsafe with her and that's why you let her come back. There are other solutions other than letting this adult rule your world in your own home. Your husband needs to be nice to you too. Sounds like so many of us, we are used to letting others disrespect us and boss us around. You are as important and valuable as your daughter and your husband and maybe can learn to stick up for yourself with both of them.</p><p></p><p>If things get bad enough, many here have shown our adult children the door. It is your own decision, but things sound so sad for you. I'm so sorry. It may help you to go to therapy for yourself or, if drugs are involved, Al-Anon or Narc-Anon. Was very helpful for me when my daughter used drugs and I was a wreck. Really helped.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 676393, member: 1550"] Wow. What a mess and I'm so sorry. How old is your daughter, does she work, and why did you let her come home? If she doesn't take care of the baby, you can call CPS and maybe get custody yourself, if you want it. She should not be taking over YOUR house, YOUR sanctuary by being rude. Hey, I'd let an adult child with a baby come home too, but only if she were helpful, respectful and took care of her own child and paid rent. It is baloney that she feels she has the right to live off of your good heart and yet tell you how to talk to her. She is a guest in your house. You don't need to walk on eggshells...it is she who needs to learn some respect or leave. Others will come along. I am guessing your daughter is probably into drugs and/or other criminal activity and that the baby is unsafe with her and that's why you let her come back. There are other solutions other than letting this adult rule your world in your own home. Your husband needs to be nice to you too. Sounds like so many of us, we are used to letting others disrespect us and boss us around. You are as important and valuable as your daughter and your husband and maybe can learn to stick up for yourself with both of them. If things get bad enough, many here have shown our adult children the door. It is your own decision, but things sound so sad for you. I'm so sorry. It may help you to go to therapy for yourself or, if drugs are involved, Al-Anon or Narc-Anon. Was very helpful for me when my daughter used drugs and I was a wreck. Really helped. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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