I know the school usually has the IEP case manager run the IEP meeting. Is there any legal reason why I can't run it? I love the case managers for my boys but Kanga's may give me a heart attack yet. A meeting that should take 45 minutes is stretched into hours. Last meeting (because I had filed a complaint), the case managers superior was there and ran the meeting and it took 45 minutes. I've been warned that they are not coming this time so I was hoping I could run the meeting. I may simply wrest control of the meeting away from the case manager but I would prefer it if I could set it up in advance that I would be running it.