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<blockquote data-quote="Gracethroughfaith" data-source="post: 736128" data-attributes="member: 23222"><p>Yes, I agree each journey is different. My husband and I have been doing this chaotic lifestyle, if you could call it that haha, for 5 years with him. He does not want a relationship with his biological father, his grandparents or his older sister, so we are all he has. He lost his girlfriend because of his choices too. All he has left are his loser friends. (Not friends at all if you ask me because they know he is trying to get sober, or was) My guilt lies within that this last relapse we told him was the last living in our home. If he relapsed, lied, or broke any of our house rules, he had to leave. Which he did immediately. It’s been 18 days. He just now texted me for $20. I said no. I’ve never done that before. Not easy as I know he has nothing, but that was HIS choice. Am I awful for saying no? I know it probably sounds crazy even asking but I feel so alone on this ship heading for nowhere. </p><p></p><p>I’m trying to be good to myself but it’s not easy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gracethroughfaith, post: 736128, member: 23222"] Yes, I agree each journey is different. My husband and I have been doing this chaotic lifestyle, if you could call it that haha, for 5 years with him. He does not want a relationship with his biological father, his grandparents or his older sister, so we are all he has. He lost his girlfriend because of his choices too. All he has left are his loser friends. (Not friends at all if you ask me because they know he is trying to get sober, or was) My guilt lies within that this last relapse we told him was the last living in our home. If he relapsed, lied, or broke any of our house rules, he had to leave. Which he did immediately. It’s been 18 days. He just now texted me for $20. I said no. I’ve never done that before. Not easy as I know he has nothing, but that was HIS choice. Am I awful for saying no? I know it probably sounds crazy even asking but I feel so alone on this ship heading for nowhere. I’m trying to be good to myself but it’s not easy. [/QUOTE]
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