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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 26894" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>The failure is not in the falling , but not getting up. These situations not only derail our kids but we also become despairing and some times look for the quick fix. The quicker we put these incidents behind us, find something small to celebrate so we can change gear. Success breeds success , a positive experience is a springboard for the next experience. Coming up with various alternative solutions shows good thinking , we can work from there .</p><p>Besides the anger management , recognizing the stimuli onslaught, we need to help the kid to come up with various alternative solutions to the problems he is facing - he can ask for help , try come up with a solution that is mutually satisfying or try give and take. </p><p>here is a thread I did on problem solving</p><p></p><p><a href="http://empathic-discipline.com/talk/YaBB.pl?num=1171442844" target="_blank">http://empathic-discipline.com/talk/YaBB.pl?num=1171442844</a></p><p></p><p>I hope both of you feel better and more optimistic</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 26894, member: 10"] Hi, The failure is not in the falling , but not getting up. These situations not only derail our kids but we also become despairing and some times look for the quick fix. The quicker we put these incidents behind us, find something small to celebrate so we can change gear. Success breeds success , a positive experience is a springboard for the next experience. Coming up with various alternative solutions shows good thinking , we can work from there . Besides the anger management , recognizing the stimuli onslaught, we need to help the kid to come up with various alternative solutions to the problems he is facing - he can ask for help , try come up with a solution that is mutually satisfying or try give and take. here is a thread I did on problem solving [url="http://empathic-discipline.com/talk/YaBB.pl?num=1171442844"]http://empathic-discipline.com/talk/YaBB.pl?num=1171442844[/url] I hope both of you feel better and more optimistic Allan [/QUOTE]
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