My 44 y/o son hasn't spoke to us for 2 weeks since we wouldn't get him housing after breaking up with his girlfriend he lived with for 4 years. He mistreated her all the time and on our last converstaion said we weren't a f---in family and hung up. I had already got him a Christmas present and was going to give him a gift card too, but don't want to give him anything now. He has no respect for us and I am sure will be crying at end of month when reality hits and he has to leave their house. Most gifts he could sell or trade and money isn't something I would give him at all. Should I just ignore Christmas at this point and return the gifts? He did this exact same scenario last Christmas.