Most of you already know that I am pregenant and expecting my 3rd child in April of 2011. Well, I am having a terrible time with how my husband is handling the news... I know at first it was quite a shock to everyone (including me), but now that I am 4 1/2 months along I have accepted the impending arrival of this new baby and am increasingly more and more excited everyday about it... Unfortunately, my husband is not. He keeps bringing up the possiblility of adoption - at first he would opening make comment here and there about giving the baby up (which I immediately blantently refuse to consider) and NOW he has been looking up information on the internet about adoption and leaving the information up on the screen when he is done using the computer (I am not sure if it is intentional or an accident)... I am VERY upset about this, but do not know how to approach him on this situation - the last time we talked about it I got hysterical and extremely upset. I lOVE this baby and would NEVER give it up and I just don't understand why he would want to give this baby up. I know that our finances are tight, and having a new baby will put more of a finincal strain on us, but this new life is part of both of us. FF1 has also made comments in the past about not being around anymore once this new baby arrives, so THIS even scares me more - I have a feeling that he really MAY leave me if we keep this baby. Does anyone have any suggestions for me?