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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 47203" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Whew...</p><p></p><p>I can only imagine how horrible it must be to know that something like that happened to your daughter. I was raped when I was 18 and I remember thinking that I was so sorry my parents had to get the phone call in the middle of the night to come to the ER because their daughter had been raped. Even though we didnt have the best relationship at the time I imagine it had to have been the worst phone call of their lives. </p><p></p><p>Now...on to how you handle this. You have got to buck up. This is a horror and a tragedy but you have got to be strong for your daughter. She doesnt need to see any revulsion or disgust from you. Dont second guess what she did. None of this was her fault. I dont care where she was or what she did, it didnt give anyone the right to violate her. You both could probably do with some counseling. I hope she is getting it where she is and you should probably contact the rape crisis center where you live and ask about seeing someone. They will help you for free. </p><p></p><p>Your daughter is the same girl she was before this happened but she will need you to tell her it wasnt her fault. That she is still lovable and that you still love her. Listen to her when she wants to talk but dont press her if she doesnt. </p><p></p><p>Just be a mom. </p><p></p><p>Hugs...if I can help at all PM me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 47203, member: 1514"] Whew... I can only imagine how horrible it must be to know that something like that happened to your daughter. I was raped when I was 18 and I remember thinking that I was so sorry my parents had to get the phone call in the middle of the night to come to the ER because their daughter had been raped. Even though we didnt have the best relationship at the time I imagine it had to have been the worst phone call of their lives. Now...on to how you handle this. You have got to buck up. This is a horror and a tragedy but you have got to be strong for your daughter. She doesnt need to see any revulsion or disgust from you. Dont second guess what she did. None of this was her fault. I dont care where she was or what she did, it didnt give anyone the right to violate her. You both could probably do with some counseling. I hope she is getting it where she is and you should probably contact the rape crisis center where you live and ask about seeing someone. They will help you for free. Your daughter is the same girl she was before this happened but she will need you to tell her it wasnt her fault. That she is still lovable and that you still love her. Listen to her when she wants to talk but dont press her if she doesnt. Just be a mom. Hugs...if I can help at all PM me. [/QUOTE]
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