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<blockquote data-quote="mum2JK&amp;TH" data-source="post: 47303" data-attributes="member: 1784"><p>I was raped when I was 12 and didn't tell my mum about it until my best friend was raped by the same guy about six months later and was hopitalized. She needs you and she needs you to listen and be there for her. You need to take any guilt or anger you feel and deal with it after, away from her. Let her talk and feel that she can freely talk to you without having to worry about how she may have hurt you or made you feel bad. My mum laid so much guilt on me with her own "woah is me" feeling that she took away all that I had been through. Your daughter cannot change what has happened but if she is ready to talk about it then she needs to do so freely and at her pace. Sounds like she is ready for the next step, just be there for her. Set up an appointment for yourself after to deal with how it affects you, but don't put that weight on her shoulders.</p><p></p><p>Listen and Love...that's all she needs and lots of hugs if she'll accept them.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry this has happened. Big hugs to you both...She'll get through this mum, I promise.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mum2JK&TH, post: 47303, member: 1784"] I was raped when I was 12 and didn't tell my mum about it until my best friend was raped by the same guy about six months later and was hopitalized. She needs you and she needs you to listen and be there for her. You need to take any guilt or anger you feel and deal with it after, away from her. Let her talk and feel that she can freely talk to you without having to worry about how she may have hurt you or made you feel bad. My mum laid so much guilt on me with her own "woah is me" feeling that she took away all that I had been through. Your daughter cannot change what has happened but if she is ready to talk about it then she needs to do so freely and at her pace. Sounds like she is ready for the next step, just be there for her. Set up an appointment for yourself after to deal with how it affects you, but don't put that weight on her shoulders. Listen and Love...that's all she needs and lots of hugs if she'll accept them. I am so sorry this has happened. Big hugs to you both...She'll get through this mum, I promise. (((HUGS))) [/QUOTE]
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