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<blockquote data-quote="Ashley.M" data-source="post: 623769" data-attributes="member: 17833"><p>Thank you for your response. He hasn’t ever gotten caught showing his male parts to any girls or anything but he doesn’t seem to have any problem at all with adults seeing him naked because he will streak across the hall after he’s taken a bath. I have told him countless times to bring his clothes and a towel with him when he goes to take a bath and he always “forgets”. As for sexual abuse, there hasn’t ever been any that he has told anyone about. His mother has been with some unsavory characters though, so it is possible. He lies all the time and his behavior in school has gotten so bad that the school has already told the grandparents who have him now that if his behavior doesn’t improve, he will be kicked out of school. He’s gotten kicked off the bus numerous times too. He is very violent towards himself and others. He has acted like he was going to hit me before and he has hit his dad. He knows he can pick on his great grandmother and that when no one else is there, he can get away with it. He doesn’t normally hit adults who are more capable of fighting back like myself or his dad. You are right about him not responding to discipline. If he gets put in time out, he will keep screaming and screaming. He has told his grandparents before that his dad and I were not feeding him and all kinds of stuff that just wasn’t true. I am glad that I’m not the only one who feels that this kid is a danger to my two babies. There is no telling what he would do to them and as a mother, I am not willing to put my babies in that situation. His dad, however, doesn’t see the problems in this boy that I do. He knows that he has problems but his exact words were “he can change, he just needs to be with me”. He wants his son with him and I can understand that. Social Services isn’t involved yet but I’m sure that’s just a matter of time. The grandmother that he’s staying with doesn’t want him going anywhere…or didn’t until recently because she didn’t want to live alone. Lately though, his behavior has gotten to the point that she can’t handle him. All this time, I have been feeling like this awful person because I can’t hardly stand to be around him and I don’t trust him around my babies, but I can see now that my fears were justified. I will definitely think about what you had to say and I am going to find the least confrontational way I can to bring this up to my husband. Thank you so much</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ashley.M, post: 623769, member: 17833"] Thank you for your response. He hasn’t ever gotten caught showing his male parts to any girls or anything but he doesn’t seem to have any problem at all with adults seeing him naked because he will streak across the hall after he’s taken a bath. I have told him countless times to bring his clothes and a towel with him when he goes to take a bath and he always “forgets”. As for sexual abuse, there hasn’t ever been any that he has told anyone about. His mother has been with some unsavory characters though, so it is possible. He lies all the time and his behavior in school has gotten so bad that the school has already told the grandparents who have him now that if his behavior doesn’t improve, he will be kicked out of school. He’s gotten kicked off the bus numerous times too. He is very violent towards himself and others. He has acted like he was going to hit me before and he has hit his dad. He knows he can pick on his great grandmother and that when no one else is there, he can get away with it. He doesn’t normally hit adults who are more capable of fighting back like myself or his dad. You are right about him not responding to discipline. If he gets put in time out, he will keep screaming and screaming. He has told his grandparents before that his dad and I were not feeding him and all kinds of stuff that just wasn’t true. I am glad that I’m not the only one who feels that this kid is a danger to my two babies. There is no telling what he would do to them and as a mother, I am not willing to put my babies in that situation. His dad, however, doesn’t see the problems in this boy that I do. He knows that he has problems but his exact words were “he can change, he just needs to be with me”. He wants his son with him and I can understand that. Social Services isn’t involved yet but I’m sure that’s just a matter of time. The grandmother that he’s staying with doesn’t want him going anywhere…or didn’t until recently because she didn’t want to live alone. Lately though, his behavior has gotten to the point that she can’t handle him. All this time, I have been feeling like this awful person because I can’t hardly stand to be around him and I don’t trust him around my babies, but I can see now that my fears were justified. I will definitely think about what you had to say and I am going to find the least confrontational way I can to bring this up to my husband. Thank you so much [/QUOTE]
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