I ran some errands this afternoon and J was home alone. I intended to take her but she has neglected several things and I got really angry with her so I didn't take her. I came home at 3 and she had all 3 door locks on. NOT typical. Usually we just use the deadbolt because we don't have a key for the knob locka nd the other is just one of those little bars that you can't do from outside. Someone came to our back door and pounded on it for 10 min. This man pounded so hard there is a hole in the door. NOT all the way though, just through the outer layer. WHen I came home a few min later she was shaking and crying. VERY unlike Jess, so I knew it was BAD. She got a glimpse of the person through the kitchen window but only from the back. She said it could be gfgbro but she wasn't sure. She didn't recognize the car but t was the color of the car he has been driving (he keeps getting beaters and tehn 'fixing' them but they don't run well ever, esp after he 'fixes' them.) I spoke to mgmt, they want a picture of bro and his name, and description of the car. If they see him on the property they will run him off. they will press charges if he comes back after that, and they won't tolerate anyone harrassing a tenant. If it is another tenant (very doubtful), they will be evicted over it. Of course we don't truly know who it is, but if it is gfgbro he will come back again. Then we will dial 911. Jess didn't call because she was just frozen in fear. I felt bad for not beng here, but I cannot be here all the time, of course. I hate this. It has been a peaceful 2 yrs and I don't want this koi happening. If I wasn't so afraid that I would hurt myself during a bad migraine, I would go and buy a gun. I just cannot risk it though. I know myself and when they are bad I would do anything to stop them, and often the only thing that I can think of is just removing the part hat hurts. I won't risk that, not at all. I gave up the right to be stupid like that when I had kids.