hi so i went to team mtg. at easy child's school with the entire staff. well needless to say she's at wire regarding graduation. if she doesn't do x y and z graduation will not be happening. she was defiant in the mtg. at one point when the dean of students and the guy whose also the principal spoke to her. she told him off. we were all shocked. than cursed me at mtg and called me a b**** i bleeped that out. they kept asking why she isnt' in her early classes. she said aw i can't sleep at night due to ssri. i said yes also probably because ssri mixed with a ton of alcohol could also be the problem. she left walked out of mtg in tears and raging. guidance counselor and principal looked at me adn said you have zero control over her huh..? i said exactly right. they said well wake her up in the a.m. for school during mtg.to get her in. i said no way. i said she sits up on facebook, webcam and is chosing to stay awake she will not place blame solely on a medication. i will not be the reason she graduates or doesnt'. so easy child turned and said well if youdont wake me i wont be in school. i said fine thats your choice. so end of day she disappeared yet again. we have no clue where she is. she stated she isnt' coming home and moving out when 18 in two months. i said move out now thats fine with us. yet that means no cell, no money, no food or rood no college money or car. again your choice. so we shall see. than i leave and walk out had to bring difficult child. who waited outside mtg. who than asks when are kids coming today. my step kids. i had to tell her i dont' know teh plan today because as usual husband's ex changed plan with kids yet again. so than she began to melt down on me. i told husband i'm tired of this for the last and final time get the plan on sunday night from work.if difficult child had amedical condition you would. well she's Mentally ill so look at it as a medical condition and handle as such and get the stupid plan the two lousy days your home ahead of time so i can put on schedule.