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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 30825" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>I didn't intend this thread to be pro or anti. I didn't intend this thread to make judgments on those still searching for the answer for their difficult children.</p><p></p><p>It was more a matter of pulling back from the hysteria surrounded by sad & disturbing stories that are cause for sensation.</p><p></p><p>If presenting symptoms call for a second, third or fourth look at medications, therapy, changes in goals, I will do so.</p><p></p><p>And I had to step back at some point & see if what was decided would or could work. I knew the diagnosis's - it's pretty set in stone for at least the Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) & PTSD; I had to commit to a treatment plan for my children. </p><p></p><p>Recently a 9 y/o child in the upper Midwest died from a restraint applied inappropriately. I worry over restraints & yet once again it becomes a matter of safety for my children until they are stable once again.</p><p></p><p>For myself I had to step back & stop 2nd guessing - I had to stop wasting precious time & commit my tweedles to a treatment mileau. Right, wrong or indifferent the tweedles could no longer flounder while I searched for the "miracle" that wasn't happening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 30825, member: 393"] I didn't intend this thread to be pro or anti. I didn't intend this thread to make judgments on those still searching for the answer for their difficult children. It was more a matter of pulling back from the hysteria surrounded by sad & disturbing stories that are cause for sensation. If presenting symptoms call for a second, third or fourth look at medications, therapy, changes in goals, I will do so. And I had to step back at some point & see if what was decided would or could work. I knew the diagnosis's - it's pretty set in stone for at least the Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) & PTSD; I had to commit to a treatment plan for my children. Recently a 9 y/o child in the upper Midwest died from a restraint applied inappropriately. I worry over restraints & yet once again it becomes a matter of safety for my children until they are stable once again. For myself I had to step back & stop 2nd guessing - I had to stop wasting precious time & commit my tweedles to a treatment mileau. Right, wrong or indifferent the tweedles could no longer flounder while I searched for the "miracle" that wasn't happening. [/QUOTE]
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