Hi, welcome to the group. Can you give us more information about your son? It helps people to be able to share similar stories and what kinds of placements happened.
What kinds of assessments has he had? How old is he? What diagnosis and medications does he have? Is he in special education?
There are several people here who have had to place kids either in group homes, or residential treatment centers or psychiatric hospitals etc. Some do out patient intensive programs or mixtures of therapies and home supports.
Again, welcome and sorry for your stress. I hope you continue to come and check things out here, when people wake up I am sure you will get responses!