Me and my wife are having extreme difficulty dealing with our 7 yr old son. He is diagnosed with ADHD and we havent received any clear diagnosis of ODD. He matches all criteria for ODD. We are seeking any advice and information that may be offered. We are desperately seeking positive ways to cope and deal with his outbursts and behavior. He has been placed into special education because of his behavior, not because of learning disabilities. He is constantly in trouble at school and being sent home with bad daily reports. At home he has good days and very bad days. He yells, throws things, threatens self harm and attempts to run away. We have him in counseling for ADHD but it hasnt seemed to help. Please, we are seeking support, advice and help. We are desperate and love our son very much.