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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 667494" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Cedar, just keep posting. As you see them with more clarity, they will seem almost cartoonish in their behavior. They are not worth your anger, but anger is part of the cycle to apathy. Now I'm not apathy is even healthy. I posted a new thread about THAT. But I'm sort of there. I think I could see them b oth at my dad's funeral (hopefully in twenty years) and not even care. At one time I was thinking of not attending because they feared and hurt me so much. Now? What can they do to me that they haven't already tried? And they failed to break me then and they can't now.</p><p></p><p>Daphne about did me in. Only a very insignificant person in my life would bother to post things like she apparently did. I am obviously more important to her than she is to me. And I spent so many tears over her for nothing. She was never the well</p><p>balanced, stable person I thought her to be. She was always weak, needy, demeaning, and controlling, but I saw that as stable. I didn't realize that what she'd done to my brother and then my grandma was cruel...and that it could be turned on me. WTH?</p><p></p><p>Well, she can say what she wants about me now. I won't know or care. You can't care if you don't know.</p><p></p><p>Boy, do I have a warped sense of stable. or I used to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 667494, member: 1550"] Cedar, just keep posting. As you see them with more clarity, they will seem almost cartoonish in their behavior. They are not worth your anger, but anger is part of the cycle to apathy. Now I'm not apathy is even healthy. I posted a new thread about THAT. But I'm sort of there. I think I could see them b oth at my dad's funeral (hopefully in twenty years) and not even care. At one time I was thinking of not attending because they feared and hurt me so much. Now? What can they do to me that they haven't already tried? And they failed to break me then and they can't now. Daphne about did me in. Only a very insignificant person in my life would bother to post things like she apparently did. I am obviously more important to her than she is to me. And I spent so many tears over her for nothing. She was never the well balanced, stable person I thought her to be. She was always weak, needy, demeaning, and controlling, but I saw that as stable. I didn't realize that what she'd done to my brother and then my grandma was cruel...and that it could be turned on me. WTH? Well, she can say what she wants about me now. I won't know or care. You can't care if you don't know. Boy, do I have a warped sense of stable. or I used to. [/QUOTE]
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