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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 13182" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Barbara ~ It's funny that you realized it was your mother's voice. Truth be told, I bet lot's of self sabotage can be traced back to our mother's voice.</p><p>I don't know if it is so much of just things she said to us, or just the way she instilled what a mom should be.</p><p></p><p>My mom was always at home, I have always had to make a living. So, I spent many years in conflict that I was not being a good mom because I was not at home.</p><p></p><p>I catch myself sometimes if I am riding my horses thinking that I should be at home cooking dinner. A ~good~ wife and mother wouldn't be devoting so much time to training horses.</p><p></p><p>It is the same with spending money on myself, yet I can't put my finger on where that one comes from.</p><p></p><p>All in all most of my self sabotage comes from the voice of my mom or the image in my head of my growing up and how my mom sacrificed for me</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 13182, member: 2389"] Barbara ~ It's funny that you realized it was your mother's voice. Truth be told, I bet lot's of self sabotage can be traced back to our mother's voice. I don't know if it is so much of just things she said to us, or just the way she instilled what a mom should be. My mom was always at home, I have always had to make a living. So, I spent many years in conflict that I was not being a good mom because I was not at home. I catch myself sometimes if I am riding my horses thinking that I should be at home cooking dinner. A ~good~ wife and mother wouldn't be devoting so much time to training horses. It is the same with spending money on myself, yet I can't put my finger on where that one comes from. All in all most of my self sabotage comes from the voice of my mom or the image in my head of my growing up and how my mom sacrificed for me [/QUOTE]
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