H has already started in with his concerns about his mom being alone and he's planning our lives now!! Tonight, he said we should spend two weeks at his moms for Christmas! Pardon me, but no F-ing WAYYYYYYYYYY!!! First, I love Christmas, second, it's my birthday week, and last? She is a pill, doesnt care about Christmas or birthdays, has never acknowledged me as H's wife, has never acknowledged my daughters birthdays or mine and can't stand me ( I know you may be thinking at this point, 'Gee, I wonder why not?' lol). I'm sorry I'm whining....it's just that I see what's happening here with H and his concerns for his mother and it's rattling my cage. And, I'm out of Xanax. Grrrrrr. Thanks, needed that vent.