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Seven years later - daughter on another continent - same issues
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 699165" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>McDonna, welcome back. I'm so sorry for your struggles.....I'm running out the door right now, but I just wanted to offer my support and tell you <em><u>DON'T send any more money, don't bring her home, don't do anymore</u></em>........retain your peaceful environment, I am feeling fairly confident that once your daughter gets home, her decompressing will last years and you will be living once again, in hell. If you get a chance, read the article on detachment on the PE forum, perhaps it will give you strength......my daughter is 43 and she began shifting her behavior ONLY after I detached and stopped enabling her. You deserve the peace of mind and sense of calm you've managed to pull together in her absence. Your daughter has <u>not</u> changed, in my opinion, <u>you</u> must do the changing and that means, to stop enabling her. I'm sorry, I know how hard it is.......hang in there........you're not alone.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 699165, member: 13542"] McDonna, welcome back. I'm so sorry for your struggles.....I'm running out the door right now, but I just wanted to offer my support and tell you [I][U]DON'T send any more money, don't bring her home, don't do anymore[/U][/I]........retain your peaceful environment, I am feeling fairly confident that once your daughter gets home, her decompressing will last years and you will be living once again, in hell. If you get a chance, read the article on detachment on the PE forum, perhaps it will give you strength......my daughter is 43 and she began shifting her behavior ONLY after I detached and stopped enabling her. You deserve the peace of mind and sense of calm you've managed to pull together in her absence. Your daughter has [U]not[/U] changed, in my opinion, [U]you[/U] must do the changing and that means, to stop enabling her. I'm sorry, I know how hard it is.......hang in there........you're not alone..... [/QUOTE]
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