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Seven years later - daughter on another continent - same issues
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 699710" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Mcdonna, when I first found this site, I was in a similar place....the wonderful folks here kept me from continuing down the same road and gave me tools that helped so much. Once the patterning was interrupted, there was no turning back. Over time, I used those new tools and the peace of mind that came as a result of not engaging with my daughter continuously, to learn how to detach, let go and accept what is. It's remarkable to me, even now, how much life can change once WE start to change and once WE stop enabling our kids. It's also remarkable to me how our kids find ways to get their needs met without us. They are resourceful. </p><p></p><p>Instead of thinking about your daughter, go out and do something really nurturing and fun for YOU.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 699710, member: 13542"] Mcdonna, when I first found this site, I was in a similar place....the wonderful folks here kept me from continuing down the same road and gave me tools that helped so much. Once the patterning was interrupted, there was no turning back. Over time, I used those new tools and the peace of mind that came as a result of not engaging with my daughter continuously, to learn how to detach, let go and accept what is. It's remarkable to me, even now, how much life can change once WE start to change and once WE stop enabling our kids. It's also remarkable to me how our kids find ways to get their needs met without us. They are resourceful. Instead of thinking about your daughter, go out and do something really nurturing and fun for YOU. [/QUOTE]
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