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Seven years later - daughter on another continent - same issues
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 702094" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Amman, as soon as hub retires we are going to buy an older RV (hub is a mechanic) and drive Southwest for the winter. Want to meet there??? Hehe.</p><p></p><p>It is too hard to live with other adults, even well behaved helpful adult kids. I don't really want any of my kids, nice ones included, living with us. Husband and I deserve a great retirement and so do you. Your husband is a saint if he lived with that daughter and the Grands for ten years. </p><p></p><p>He and you deserve to let go of daughter and realize you can't obsess over grandchildren anymore...that requires possibly killing yourself while you give daughter all she demands. You need to finally own your life and have fun. You know you can't win with daughter. Stop trying. Your Grande will grow and learn to deal with her, maybe in ways she doesn't enjoy. She sets a bad example and you can't stop her or save the Grands.</p><p></p><p>Your husband deserves a happy wife.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion it is best for all of you finally let go and enjoy. You can't take care of anyone but you and you matter.</p><p></p><p>Take care and meet me in Arizona <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 702094, member: 1550"] Amman, as soon as hub retires we are going to buy an older RV (hub is a mechanic) and drive Southwest for the winter. Want to meet there??? Hehe. It is too hard to live with other adults, even well behaved helpful adult kids. I don't really want any of my kids, nice ones included, living with us. Husband and I deserve a great retirement and so do you. Your husband is a saint if he lived with that daughter and the Grands for ten years. He and you deserve to let go of daughter and realize you can't obsess over grandchildren anymore...that requires possibly killing yourself while you give daughter all she demands. You need to finally own your life and have fun. You know you can't win with daughter. Stop trying. Your Grande will grow and learn to deal with her, maybe in ways she doesn't enjoy. She sets a bad example and you can't stop her or save the Grands. Your husband deserves a happy wife. in my opinion it is best for all of you finally let go and enjoy. You can't take care of anyone but you and you matter. Take care and meet me in Arizona :) [/QUOTE]
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