So Difficult Child is in prison for robbery. Well evidently before hit the fan with stealing our money for a herion binge, he intimated a girl, threatened to hurt her. Well, hes never hurt anyone. But has a mouth. Did this before to ex girlfriend. Via cell phone. He doesn't learn. Anyway, i am proud of myself. I dont feel any anxiety about what kind of punishment he will get. Old me would be on computer looking it up, getting upset for another ding on rap sheet, calling family to share my anxieties. Instead i put his court summons in mail to him in prison. Didnt write anything, didnt suggest anything. Zero, Nothing. I will mail in morning. He can deal with it.