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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 652621" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Hi Some, it was months after finding this forum that I started connecting my family with what goes on with my difficult child. I knew they could be mean, but I just refused to see the connection.</p><p></p><p>There is a whole lot of mean that goes on in many of our families. I am dealing with it right now, so cannot close my eyes. I am so sorry you have to deal with this.</p><p></p><p>As we read so often here, <strong>hold very close those who treat us respectfully. Let the others go.</strong></p><p></p><p>My brother is in the hospital, freaky accident. Was in ICU for several days, in regular room now, but not out of the woods for losing an arm. My mother is furious with husband and me because we called her out on being rude while we were giving my parents a ride to see their son. She was/is mad because we followed the GPS, instead of the route she wanted. I know.......</p><p></p><p>She will not speak to me right now, her only link to hearing about her son who has had 6 surgeries in the last 10 days. It defies common sense. My brother cannot use either arm to answer his phone; my sister in law would never, ever give her mother in law her cell #. Bad relationship for the 25 years they have been married. Parents never "approved". Heck, they call my nephew by his middle name because they do not approve of his first name. It is just crazy typing this!!</p><p></p><p>My brother and sister in law are all about, <em>Good for you! High time you did this! </em>While that makes me feel better, I am so sad this has happened. Again.</p><p></p><p>In my mom and my past, she once did not speak to me for five years and had nothing to do with 2 of my 3 kids. I will not go down that road with her again. Most likely, because I found this forum. Well, okay, I guess there is no choice in going down that road again, but there will be no guilt.</p><p></p><p>Saying, I am not aiming to highjack your post, but I DO understand. It is sheer insanity to try to salvage a relationship that is so based on one person demanding you meet their whims and wants, no matter how ridiculous.</p><p></p><p>Stay strong!</p><p></p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 652621, member: 17635"] Hi Some, it was months after finding this forum that I started connecting my family with what goes on with my difficult child. I knew they could be mean, but I just refused to see the connection. There is a whole lot of mean that goes on in many of our families. I am dealing with it right now, so cannot close my eyes. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. As we read so often here, [B]hold very close those who treat us respectfully. Let the others go.[/B] My brother is in the hospital, freaky accident. Was in ICU for several days, in regular room now, but not out of the woods for losing an arm. My mother is furious with husband and me because we called her out on being rude while we were giving my parents a ride to see their son. She was/is mad because we followed the GPS, instead of the route she wanted. I know....... She will not speak to me right now, her only link to hearing about her son who has had 6 surgeries in the last 10 days. It defies common sense. My brother cannot use either arm to answer his phone; my sister in law would never, ever give her mother in law her cell #. Bad relationship for the 25 years they have been married. Parents never "approved". Heck, they call my nephew by his middle name because they do not approve of his first name. It is just crazy typing this!! My brother and sister in law are all about, [I]Good for you! High time you did this! [/I]While that makes me feel better, I am so sad this has happened. Again. In my mom and my past, she once did not speak to me for five years and had nothing to do with 2 of my 3 kids. I will not go down that road with her again. Most likely, because I found this forum. Well, okay, I guess there is no choice in going down that road again, but there will be no guilt. Saying, I am not aiming to highjack your post, but I DO understand. It is sheer insanity to try to salvage a relationship that is so based on one person demanding you meet their whims and wants, no matter how ridiculous. Stay strong! SS [/QUOTE]
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