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bran155
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Hello all, I hope everyone is having a better day than me!!!
My daughter finally called this morning. She called my sister's cell phone, she put money on the phone account so that my daughter can get through. They moved her from the psychiatric ward to the hospital??? Not really sure what that means or what the difference is. I though maybe they put her in the County Hospital but no she said she is in the jail hospital. I thought that's what the psychiatric ward was. I don't know, I am confused.
Anyway she called and gave my poor sister hell. She was cursing and ranting and raving. Telling my sister we need to get her out of there. She was furious that her lawyer waived her appearance in court and she didn't get to actually see the judge. In her twisted mind she really though she was going to be released!!! She hasn't learned a darn thing. Still blaming us for her life. She was saying to my sister that we don't do s**t for her!!! WHAT???? We have done more for this kid than our other kids 10 fold. She is a piece of work that's for sure. Nothing new. We knew that was coming. She kept saying that me and my sister are b***hes. She said that it is our fault she is in there. Of course she will not take any blame or responsibility for HER actions. Some things never change. I am not surprised by this, it is exactly what I expected. She told my sister that when she gets out she is leaving and we will never see her again. Aaah, the familiar emotional blackmail. See right through it!!! She actually thinks that we are going to bail her out. My sister told her we will not, we do not have that kind of money and even if we did, we wouldn't bail her out. She told her she needs to deal with her consequences. Good for my sister!!!! She kept on cursing at my sister. My sister warned her, "Stop cursing at me or I am hanging up". She kept on and my sister hung up. Go sis!!!!
It truly amazes me that she has zero accountability in all of this nonsense. She has soooooo much growing up to do. How dare her say we haven't done anything for her. In the past year, no we haven't done much for her. Tough love. She didn't deserve anything. I was hoping she would see that her behavior was what caused us to pull back. But no. She doesn't see that. Instead of changing her behavior to earn things from us she chose to sell drugs and steel. Before this past year we did everything for her. Her selective memory allows her to forget all that we have done for her and all that we have been through for her. Can you say SELFISH??? The most self absorbed human being I have ever known. Quite sad actually.
She will be calling later so that she can get me on the phone and give me some of the hell. I am dreading that phone call. Truthfully though, it is easier on me emotionally when she is cursing at me, then I don't feel so bad that she is where she is. The harder phone calls are the ones where she is crying and begging me to help her. Those I can't handle. The cursing, peice of cake. I don't like it but anger is a much easier emotion to handle than sadness and guilt. When she does begin her attack I will give her a warning or two and then hang up as well. Can't wait!!!
I'll let you know how it goes.
Thanks for listening.
Shawna
My daughter finally called this morning. She called my sister's cell phone, she put money on the phone account so that my daughter can get through. They moved her from the psychiatric ward to the hospital??? Not really sure what that means or what the difference is. I though maybe they put her in the County Hospital but no she said she is in the jail hospital. I thought that's what the psychiatric ward was. I don't know, I am confused.
Anyway she called and gave my poor sister hell. She was cursing and ranting and raving. Telling my sister we need to get her out of there. She was furious that her lawyer waived her appearance in court and she didn't get to actually see the judge. In her twisted mind she really though she was going to be released!!! She hasn't learned a darn thing. Still blaming us for her life. She was saying to my sister that we don't do s**t for her!!! WHAT???? We have done more for this kid than our other kids 10 fold. She is a piece of work that's for sure. Nothing new. We knew that was coming. She kept saying that me and my sister are b***hes. She said that it is our fault she is in there. Of course she will not take any blame or responsibility for HER actions. Some things never change. I am not surprised by this, it is exactly what I expected. She told my sister that when she gets out she is leaving and we will never see her again. Aaah, the familiar emotional blackmail. See right through it!!! She actually thinks that we are going to bail her out. My sister told her we will not, we do not have that kind of money and even if we did, we wouldn't bail her out. She told her she needs to deal with her consequences. Good for my sister!!!! She kept on cursing at my sister. My sister warned her, "Stop cursing at me or I am hanging up". She kept on and my sister hung up. Go sis!!!!
It truly amazes me that she has zero accountability in all of this nonsense. She has soooooo much growing up to do. How dare her say we haven't done anything for her. In the past year, no we haven't done much for her. Tough love. She didn't deserve anything. I was hoping she would see that her behavior was what caused us to pull back. But no. She doesn't see that. Instead of changing her behavior to earn things from us she chose to sell drugs and steel. Before this past year we did everything for her. Her selective memory allows her to forget all that we have done for her and all that we have been through for her. Can you say SELFISH??? The most self absorbed human being I have ever known. Quite sad actually.
She will be calling later so that she can get me on the phone and give me some of the hell. I am dreading that phone call. Truthfully though, it is easier on me emotionally when she is cursing at me, then I don't feel so bad that she is where she is. The harder phone calls are the ones where she is crying and begging me to help her. Those I can't handle. The cursing, peice of cake. I don't like it but anger is a much easier emotion to handle than sadness and guilt. When she does begin her attack I will give her a warning or two and then hang up as well. Can't wait!!!
I'll let you know how it goes.
Thanks for listening.
Shawna