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She stole $13,000
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704225" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I don't think it's about you. You are not going to fix her. Nobody can but herself.</p><p></p><p>Her mother doesn't know she stole. You really can't know for sure if secret stealing is a bad problem of hers. Stealing from her mother shows a lack of empathy toward her own loved ones.</p><p></p><p>I think you may be in denial as to what sort of person she is. Perhaps you could get into therapy to gain insight and clarity from an outsider. If you were my son and asked for my take, I would encourage you to wait a few years before getting into a committed relationship with her. See if other stuff comes up. Observe. Wait. Don't excuse morally dark behavior. See what life with her would honestly be like.</p><p></p><p>This is not somebody I'd want my son to marry and have kids with. She literally ruined her own mother financially for her own use. And she is not a young kid.</p><p></p><p>You are going to do what you want. I hope you keep your eyes wide open. It's not up to you to teach her lessons. She is the only person who can change herself on a deep and organic level.</p><p></p><p>Wishing you all the best!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704225, member: 1550"] I don't think it's about you. You are not going to fix her. Nobody can but herself. Her mother doesn't know she stole. You really can't know for sure if secret stealing is a bad problem of hers. Stealing from her mother shows a lack of empathy toward her own loved ones. I think you may be in denial as to what sort of person she is. Perhaps you could get into therapy to gain insight and clarity from an outsider. If you were my son and asked for my take, I would encourage you to wait a few years before getting into a committed relationship with her. See if other stuff comes up. Observe. Wait. Don't excuse morally dark behavior. See what life with her would honestly be like. This is not somebody I'd want my son to marry and have kids with. She literally ruined her own mother financially for her own use. And she is not a young kid. You are going to do what you want. I hope you keep your eyes wide open. It's not up to you to teach her lessons. She is the only person who can change herself on a deep and organic level. Wishing you all the best! [/QUOTE]
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