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She stole $13,000
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704229" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Borrowing money without asking,even if she had paid back, is stealing. She is 31, not a child, but even a child knows this.</p><p>If you feel you can't confront about something as important as this behavior, that is not a positive about your ability to communicate with her.</p><p></p><p>This is actually a criminal matter. And you don't know if she shoplifts or steals from others and just hasn't been caught yet. I personally...and this is jmo...dont think that one random day, after having been honest all her life, all 31 years. she decided to steal from her mother. I don't think that's logical. To me, caught or not she has probably done bad things before. Whether you saw it or not or she did them to you or not.</p><p></p><p>Whether or not you care about her (why did you turn a blind eye to het: borrowimg?") ...this is a thief. It makes a statement about you too. Most of us I believe would have put a stop to it, even if we had to tell Mom, and then walked away. This was not just sketchy behavior. It is illegal and so wrong. Your own mother??</p><p></p><p>What will she do to you if she gets desperate?you think you are more exempt from this than her own mother? I call Denial...i am sorry.</p><p></p><p>Think hard about if this is who you want teaching your children. Again wishing you luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704229, member: 1550"] Borrowing money without asking,even if she had paid back, is stealing. She is 31, not a child, but even a child knows this. If you feel you can't confront about something as important as this behavior, that is not a positive about your ability to communicate with her. This is actually a criminal matter. And you don't know if she shoplifts or steals from others and just hasn't been caught yet. I personally...and this is jmo...dont think that one random day, after having been honest all her life, all 31 years. she decided to steal from her mother. I don't think that's logical. To me, caught or not she has probably done bad things before. Whether you saw it or not or she did them to you or not. Whether or not you care about her (why did you turn a blind eye to het: borrowimg?") ...this is a thief. It makes a statement about you too. Most of us I believe would have put a stop to it, even if we had to tell Mom, and then walked away. This was not just sketchy behavior. It is illegal and so wrong. Your own mother?? What will she do to you if she gets desperate?you think you are more exempt from this than her own mother? I call Denial...i am sorry. Think hard about if this is who you want teaching your children. Again wishing you luck. [/QUOTE]
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