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She stole $13,000
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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 704260" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>If you want to know what kind of person this is, that you are thinking of sharing your life, your finances, your trust, your future children with, DO NOTHING.</p><p></p><p>Just watch to see how she handles this situation.</p><p></p><p>Don't start the dangerous prescedent of cleaning up her self-made messes.</p><p></p><p>Don't make this in any way your problem, because it is not.</p><p></p><p>If she doesn't put her mother first in this, confess all on her own volition without your prodding, NOW, and immediately start replacing every penny, plus interest, you will know that she is not a person you can place your trust in.</p><p></p><p>If her own mother can't trust her, why should you?</p><p></p><p>And frankly, going to therapy and paying on her own credit card debt, while ignoring her mother's pleas for her hard-earned money does not make me think well of your girlfriend.</p><p></p><p>Don't get in the habit of trying to "fix" people, and take on their problems. Especially a love-interest. This is so important! Please think twice about this. Your job is not to fix it and make it better. Your job is to find a healthy person to spend your life with.</p><p></p><p>Don't lift a finger.</p><p></p><p>Observe.</p><p></p><p>Knights in shining armor are only for fairy tales, not real life.</p><p></p><p>You don't want to keep having to come back here with the same complaints.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 704260, member: 16024"] If you want to know what kind of person this is, that you are thinking of sharing your life, your finances, your trust, your future children with, DO NOTHING. Just watch to see how she handles this situation. Don't start the dangerous prescedent of cleaning up her self-made messes. Don't make this in any way your problem, because it is not. If she doesn't put her mother first in this, confess all on her own volition without your prodding, NOW, and immediately start replacing every penny, plus interest, you will know that she is not a person you can place your trust in. If her own mother can't trust her, why should you? And frankly, going to therapy and paying on her own credit card debt, while ignoring her mother's pleas for her hard-earned money does not make me think well of your girlfriend. Don't get in the habit of trying to "fix" people, and take on their problems. Especially a love-interest. This is so important! Please think twice about this. Your job is not to fix it and make it better. Your job is to find a healthy person to spend your life with. Don't lift a finger. Observe. Knights in shining armor are only for fairy tales, not real life. You don't want to keep having to come back here with the same complaints. [/QUOTE]
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