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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 685477" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This would not fly in my house on any level. Its your house/your rules and hes a very young teen. Under no conditions would I allow any of my kids to "date" a child of thirteen. I'd get the phone number, tell the parents that daughter is too young for Son, snd that would be it. He wouldnt have a phone if he didnt listen and if he ran off to another state to see.her I'd report him a runaway. Hell get over it. Hes just a kid.</p><p></p><p>Would you like this thirteen year old to have your first grandchild? Kids younger than that have careless sex. In our school district, a tweve yrear old boy got his thirteen year old girlfriend pregnant. Now the boy's mom is raising the child. The boy is less mature than his years and the girls parents AND the girl want nothing to do with the poor baby.</p><p></p><p>I am puzzled as to why you are allowing this. If she lived close by, you could make it hard for him, but he may sneak anyways. But she is half a country away. Who pays for the airline tickets? Why? Thats giving him your approval. Do you think its ok?</p><p></p><p></p><p>You are his parents and this relationship is ruining his young life. I truly dont get why you dont just take measures to end it. She's a baby hersrlf. A baby who can have a baby.</p><p></p><p>I was kind of a softie to my kids as minors, but there are some times when I would have said "done " this would have been one. I wouldnt have thought twice about it. Too bad if he throws a fit. This is impacting his entire life in a bad way. He needs strong parents. You cant blame him if you allow it. He needs YOUR guidance and you are telling him it is ok. This is NOT the girls fault either. She is 13. She needs parenting too, but if her parents wont do their jobs, its up to you. Some people are afraid of their kids. That is bad for the kids.</p><p></p><p>Jmo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 685477, member: 1550"] This would not fly in my house on any level. Its your house/your rules and hes a very young teen. Under no conditions would I allow any of my kids to "date" a child of thirteen. I'd get the phone number, tell the parents that daughter is too young for Son, snd that would be it. He wouldnt have a phone if he didnt listen and if he ran off to another state to see.her I'd report him a runaway. Hell get over it. Hes just a kid. Would you like this thirteen year old to have your first grandchild? Kids younger than that have careless sex. In our school district, a tweve yrear old boy got his thirteen year old girlfriend pregnant. Now the boy's mom is raising the child. The boy is less mature than his years and the girls parents AND the girl want nothing to do with the poor baby. I am puzzled as to why you are allowing this. If she lived close by, you could make it hard for him, but he may sneak anyways. But she is half a country away. Who pays for the airline tickets? Why? Thats giving him your approval. Do you think its ok? You are his parents and this relationship is ruining his young life. I truly dont get why you dont just take measures to end it. She's a baby hersrlf. A baby who can have a baby. I was kind of a softie to my kids as minors, but there are some times when I would have said "done " this would have been one. I wouldnt have thought twice about it. Too bad if he throws a fit. This is impacting his entire life in a bad way. He needs strong parents. You cant blame him if you allow it. He needs YOUR guidance and you are telling him it is ok. This is NOT the girls fault either. She is 13. She needs parenting too, but if her parents wont do their jobs, its up to you. Some people are afraid of their kids. That is bad for the kids. Jmo [/QUOTE]
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