So I haven't even been able to be on here for the past week or so because my computer contracted a rogue virus, and then another...to the point where I could not even fire it up. Had to crash the hard drive. Why did this happen? Not sure, but it could be because Tink was surfing for porn. She is EIGHT. She has been manic since her discharge a month ago, I'm pretty sure her medications are contributing. She went back in the hospital last Wednesday night. She has been taken off the stims and seems finally to be levelling out. Her father (and Lord knows I would be banned from this site forever if I put in the adjectives I would like to describe him) is also a big part of her despair. When she was in the psychiatric hospital last time, he was all concerned and calling her all the time and showing up to her family therapy sessions. Of course he was on work release at the time. He was released to house arrest 3 days after she was discharged. Instead of parolling to his mother's house, like he said he was, he went back to Sparkle Fanny's house. He was there for 2 days, had not called her, and when I finally called him, he answered with an attitude, all defensive. Up until she went back in, he only called her if she called him first. He has not seen her. And he has not called her once since she went back in. He never told Sparkle Fanny that he was visiting Tink from the work release center. He didn't want her to be upset that he was with me. So when he first parolled to her place, I told her that he had been visiting Tink. She put her leash back on him and said he could only see her at her house. Then she accused me of being a "ho" and trying to take her man away. Like I'd want him. After going back and forth with her (something I am not proud of) and asking why he has not bothered with Tink (or even his boys!) she told me to "just tell all his kids that he died". If at any point I had considered letting Tink see him at her place, that changed immediately after she said that. She is a friggin lunatic. The day after Tink went back in, he told me that he was going to talk to his PO about being able to go see Tink. With Sparkle Fanny. I told him that he was not allowed there unless I was there, and that SF was not allowed near her at all, doctor's orders. So...he has not even called me to see how she is. She has been back in for almost a week. How...how...HOW can a human being just ignore his child like that.