She's back

Discussion in 'General Parenting' started by Jody, Mar 10, 2013.

  1. Jody

    Jody Active Member

    This si not a good situation, she was brought home by the friends mom that I think was hiding her. After the police did a search of her house and kept visitng her front door, amazingly difficult child called her out of the blue and said ill meet you at a gas station and you can take me home. Even the police don't believe that. She threating to leave and at thei point today after the hwole weekend and week of craziness, i am looking forward to either putting her back into fostercare or into the psychiatrict ward. She's walking around tell me you over reacting B and just coninually calling me names and now shes teasing me about my dog, like trying to call him over to her and then smiling sweetly like shes gonna do something. Then she smiles and kisses him. She told the sheriff officer to go blankety blank himself last night and shut her blankety blank door. My oldest daughter said she has never heard of any child talking to an officer like that, and quite frankly I haven't either. He was like whoa, goodness, I am so sorry for you. She threw a milkshake at me and my dog last night and told us to lick it up what was the big deal. Please pray for me that I make it thru the night and get out of this nightmare somehow.
  2. cubsgirl

    cubsgirl Well-Known Member

    Can you have the police escort her to the nearest psychiatric unit? So sorry that you are living with this ((hugs))
  3. SomewhereOutThere

    SomewhereOutThere Well-Known Member

    Oh, Jody, I'm glad she's safe, but I'm so sorry she is obviously either manic or something...high? Yes, do get her placed somewhere for her sake and your peace of mind. I'm surprised the officer just let her get away with talking that way to him...maybe he realized something isn't right with her. Can you get her to a hospital? Yikes, I'd lock up the dogs in a safe place with water and food until she is safely out of their way.

    I am so sorry/ Prayers for you and yours coming in your direction.
  4. Hopeless

    Hopeless ....Hopeful Now

    Oh I am do sorry. Is there anyone you can call to get her out tonight. This is not a good situation. Hugs and sending my warrior mom gear to you for extra.
  5. Calamity Jane

    Calamity Jane Well-Known Member

    I don't see any alternative right now than to remove her from your home. It is in both your best interests at this point. I'm so sorry, Jody. Be safe above all. Keep the dog with you at all times.
  6. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Call the police and have her transported to ER. I don't understand why she is still home???
  7. Jody

    Jody Active Member

    When the police came he said she really hadn't made any remarks about hurting anyone or herself. I told them I would still call if she was unmanageable. I would rather have this issue happen at her school, and not my home. I just moved in here.
  8. Liahona

    Liahona Guest

    That and when she does become unmanagable having 911 record some of it might come in handy getting her admitted somewhere. I'll keep praying for you.
  9. buddy

    buddy New Member

    I hope today is the day she can be placed somewhere. I worry you're going to have to defend yourself then she'll twist it to you assaulting her.

    Your poor easy child too. You both deserve peace.
  10. StressedM0mma

    StressedM0mma Active Member

    Jody, I hope your evening went Ok, and that this morning you can get the help needed to remover her from your home. That is not safe for either of you at this point. Hugs
  11. Bunny

    Bunny Active Member

    I'm so sorry this is happening to you, Jody. Can she be transported to a hospital? I hope the rest of your night went by quietly.
  12. greenrene

    greenrene Member

    DANG. Will be checking in to hear from you today... hope things de-escalated...
  13. Jody

    Jody Active Member

    well she attacked me this morning becasue her laundry wasnt all the way dry. I came around to her screaming and kicking the dryer and calling me all kinds of names and she went after my head, Broady was so upset, he was trying to get at her, I got away and got her by the hair, so that i could pull her off of me. My poor dog is so upset. she packed a bunch of clothes and took them to school. Said she's not coming home, I was driving on the highway, and I told her no music and she punched me in my head. I dropped her off at school, and then called the cares hotline to send someone to evaluate her for the hospital. She is not coming home again. I am done, done, done. She said by b and have a great freaking day.
  14. Bunny

    Bunny Active Member

    Talk about a bad start to your day! I don't blame you for not wanting her home, again. Will they take her back into foster care? I hope so, for your sake. You can't live like this. It's not fair.
  15. dstc_99

    dstc_99 Well-Known Member

    Report it to the police! That way if the cares hotline falls through you still can have her removed from your home. That is not just bad behavior that is assualt!
  16. Jody

    Jody Active Member

    They are on their way to evaluate her, I hope she shows her true colors and not nice difficult child. I need her admitted. Then she will go back to fostercare, I am not working on this anymore. I am not going to be physically hit on or verbally abused. I don't know what I even want to see her, at all. All of the other employees are meeting in a back room, but me, I think today is the day that I get fired. I think I am going to pack up my dog and move into my van and go live in the country somewhere. I need my tiny house now.
  17. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    Sweetie, is your head OK? I think you should be checked out, too. If nothing else it will help with her... "proof" she hit you.
  18. tammybackagain

    tammybackagain New Member

    No matter what please call the police and make a report she is assaulting you. I went through it, I know it's hard but do it. if nothing else you will have proof that she has done this.
  19. buddy

    buddy New Member

    were you not invited to the meeting? I'm so sorry this is all happening. I've been hit in the head right in front of people. and in the svcks. Document it somehow.....

    I hope they take her. is that a social service agency you called? They better see how serious this is!
  20. Jody

    Jody Active Member

    My head is okay, I was able to get a grab on her while we were in the car dont ask me how, it happened so fast. I was shocked that I was that strong physically and kept her from really hurting me, of course she started her baby bawling about how I hurt her. Um no way. I am in no way letting her back in the house, not for a minute. If they don't admit her it's lockout time. I am not going to be going thru all of the counseling and craziness either. I'm done with it, alltogether, no more having life disrupted and losing everything over a kid who just doesnt care.