Hi im new, my daughter is a recovering heroin addict. She has driven me crazy for the past year. She has been clean of heroin, but continues to abuse, mistake medications, including the over the counter kind. She is a hyprochondriac and she is very selfish. I sent her out of state to stay with an elderly uncle who needed her help and lived in the middle of nowhere. Keep in mind she is 31 years old, but after she left her husband last year and came to stay with me and my boyfriend, (her father is dead). She about destroyed my relationship, and I spent every penny I earned last summer( I am a horticulturist and have my own business) on her and her stupid anti heroin medications. By august my boyfriend and I could not take anymore and told her she had to find a job and get out on her own. She is college educated. She got a job a few hours away to our great relief. I took her their several times to help her find a roomate, and do all the HR stuff, I paid her rent etc. etc. etc. her roomate kicked her out within two weeks and she lost her job. Out of desperation I asked my uncle for his help, he lives alone and is on a farm in the country. He accepted her flaws and all, and was just happy to have the company. They got along well, then she just packed up and came back. She has lived with he long time friend for about three weeks, her friends husband kicked her out last night. She called me to demand that I pick her up, I was tired and it was late so I told her no, she would have to deal with it. She has called me several times today and I refuse to answer the phone, I finally texted her that I was busy, and she needed to fix her own life. I feels so guilty but I can't keep this up! She screams and yells at me when I won't give her what she wants (even if I can't) She threatens me with suicide. She refuses to look for work saying she wants to find the perfect job, and when I pay her to work with me she does fine for a couple of days, then starts arguing with me at my customers home, then she is to sick to work for the next three days, I can't count on her! I love her but what am I suppose to do? I'm just sick over this.