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She's Gone Again...and I'm okay...for now
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<blockquote data-quote="WearyMom18" data-source="post: 653402" data-attributes="member: 18856"><p>As usual ladies you've settled my mind. </p><p></p><p>I must say I am pretty proud of the fact that she text me tonite from a different number (I blocked the last number) and said, 'Mom, can you buy me a cell phone and a plan at walmart, I can pay for it'. I replied with No, if you can pay for it go get one! </p><p></p><p>Next she asked about her court date on wednesday in a city about 5 hrs from our home and if I was still willing to take her. I told her I would because I have fully paid for the attorney but I would be ready to leave a 2pm on Tuesday and if she wasn't there ready to go then I would go back to work and she can find her own ride. She came back with, 'I have a ride there so thanks!' I simply replied Great!.</p><p></p><p>I know and I'm sure she does too, that whomever has said they would take her will likely never follow thru. They are young people like her with no jobs and living in a group somewhere. She will never admit that she k ow the people she is with are not really her friends but I've seen this over and over. She tells me her friends big plans for something and then I always get a call or text saying they screwed her over. OMG, really? It's like things happen to her over snd over and she is still utterly confused everyone it happens! It's insanity!</p><p></p><p>I blocked that number as well. I am dreading Tuesday at the thought of having to be in a car with her cooped up for 5 hours and then in a hotel all night because our last trip to court was an absolute nightmare with her verbal abuse. I am only agreeing to take her this time because uts the final court date and because I've already paid the attorney to get this done so I want to go, get her punishment and be done. Her other pending possession charge near our home, she is on her own but at least I will know I didn't throw that money down the drain. I've decided that if she shows up, I'll go but there will be conditions such as no yelling and cussing me or I will turn the car around and go home, consequences be damned. I will NOT be abused. If she doesn't show snd her friends don't take her she can just have a warrant out and eventually go to jail. </p><p></p><p>I'm nervous all the time at home, especially at night because she is staying nearby but we've done all we can as far as security goes so nothing really to do except hope and be vigilant. </p><p></p><p>I'm stronger now and feel like I will be successful at detaching which I think will help ease my occasional moments of worry and panic and sadness. She's not done with me yet so un fortunately there are still battles for me to endure but I will not lose the war. Stay strong everyone and thank you, as always!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WearyMom18, post: 653402, member: 18856"] As usual ladies you've settled my mind. I must say I am pretty proud of the fact that she text me tonite from a different number (I blocked the last number) and said, 'Mom, can you buy me a cell phone and a plan at walmart, I can pay for it'. I replied with No, if you can pay for it go get one! Next she asked about her court date on wednesday in a city about 5 hrs from our home and if I was still willing to take her. I told her I would because I have fully paid for the attorney but I would be ready to leave a 2pm on Tuesday and if she wasn't there ready to go then I would go back to work and she can find her own ride. She came back with, 'I have a ride there so thanks!' I simply replied Great!. I know and I'm sure she does too, that whomever has said they would take her will likely never follow thru. They are young people like her with no jobs and living in a group somewhere. She will never admit that she k ow the people she is with are not really her friends but I've seen this over and over. She tells me her friends big plans for something and then I always get a call or text saying they screwed her over. OMG, really? It's like things happen to her over snd over and she is still utterly confused everyone it happens! It's insanity! I blocked that number as well. I am dreading Tuesday at the thought of having to be in a car with her cooped up for 5 hours and then in a hotel all night because our last trip to court was an absolute nightmare with her verbal abuse. I am only agreeing to take her this time because uts the final court date and because I've already paid the attorney to get this done so I want to go, get her punishment and be done. Her other pending possession charge near our home, she is on her own but at least I will know I didn't throw that money down the drain. I've decided that if she shows up, I'll go but there will be conditions such as no yelling and cussing me or I will turn the car around and go home, consequences be damned. I will NOT be abused. If she doesn't show snd her friends don't take her she can just have a warrant out and eventually go to jail. I'm nervous all the time at home, especially at night because she is staying nearby but we've done all we can as far as security goes so nothing really to do except hope and be vigilant. I'm stronger now and feel like I will be successful at detaching which I think will help ease my occasional moments of worry and panic and sadness. She's not done with me yet so un fortunately there are still battles for me to endure but I will not lose the war. Stay strong everyone and thank you, as always! [/QUOTE]
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