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<blockquote data-quote="Esri" data-source="post: 631582" data-attributes="member: 18126"><p>I asked her to lunch and she said yes. Well I just got a text that she would rather sleep because she has to work at 2 and don't want to rush. </p><p></p><p>I called her. Yea I know. </p><p>I feel we have things to say and I asked her what's up? I asked her why she's avoiding me. She said she's not she's just tired. </p><p></p><p>I feel there's more and there probably is. I hate that there is so much unsaid. What the hell happened? She's 18 and now a different person.</p><p></p><p>Please don't get me wrong. I want her to be out there, be an adult. I do. I don't even e to her home right now. But I don't understand why that makes me the enemy. Why can't we still have a relationship? I guess I'm just not that strong to let her go. But I need to and I will. I have to.</p><p></p><p>I was trying to keep some kind of relationship with her. I can't have freaking have lunch with her? It's been weeks since I've seen her and she's only a few miles from us. No, I guess not at this point. I'm done reaching out. I'm hurting myself too much.</p><p></p><p>I had no idea her leaving would change us to this degree. Maybe I was blind. I'm not trying to smother her I truly am giving her space but apparently not enough. I just don't understand. </p><p></p><p>I have a 1/2 day today and am going to spend it with my youngest.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>ME </p><p>42 </p><p>husband 40</p><p>DD1 18 </p><p>DD2 9</p><p></p><p>My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling. Looking for advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Esri, post: 631582, member: 18126"] I asked her to lunch and she said yes. Well I just got a text that she would rather sleep because she has to work at 2 and don't want to rush. I called her. Yea I know. I feel we have things to say and I asked her what's up? I asked her why she's avoiding me. She said she's not she's just tired. I feel there's more and there probably is. I hate that there is so much unsaid. What the hell happened? She's 18 and now a different person. Please don't get me wrong. I want her to be out there, be an adult. I do. I don't even e to her home right now. But I don't understand why that makes me the enemy. Why can't we still have a relationship? I guess I'm just not that strong to let her go. But I need to and I will. I have to. I was trying to keep some kind of relationship with her. I can't have freaking have lunch with her? It's been weeks since I've seen her and she's only a few miles from us. No, I guess not at this point. I'm done reaching out. I'm hurting myself too much. I had no idea her leaving would change us to this degree. Maybe I was blind. I'm not trying to smother her I truly am giving her space but apparently not enough. I just don't understand. I have a 1/2 day today and am going to spend it with my youngest. ME 42 husband 40 DD1 18 DD2 9 My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling. Looking for advice. [/QUOTE]
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