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She's now somewhat 'homeless'
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 631584" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>I feel the same way about my mother. I miss the mother daughter relationship but I can't tolerate the person and her drama. So we contact each other when we need to but no more. The thing is that my mother will most likely never change she has been this way for over 20 years. Your daughter will most likely change. She will grow up and she will realize that she needs you. It may not be a brady bunch mother daughter relationship but it will be there. I am slowly trying to build that type of relationship with my difficult child but my trust level is low with her right now. It is really hard for me to open up and be myself when her GFGness could pop out at any time.</p><p> </p><p>Give her time. Let her spread her wings. When she needs you she will call. For now all you can do is send the occasional text or make the occasional call to ask her "whats up." That way the line of communication is still open but you aren't asking anything of her. You aren't "in her business" your just asking how her day was and there is no pressure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 631584, member: 15473"] I feel the same way about my mother. I miss the mother daughter relationship but I can't tolerate the person and her drama. So we contact each other when we need to but no more. The thing is that my mother will most likely never change she has been this way for over 20 years. Your daughter will most likely change. She will grow up and she will realize that she needs you. It may not be a brady bunch mother daughter relationship but it will be there. I am slowly trying to build that type of relationship with my difficult child but my trust level is low with her right now. It is really hard for me to open up and be myself when her GFGness could pop out at any time. Give her time. Let her spread her wings. When she needs you she will call. For now all you can do is send the occasional text or make the occasional call to ask her "whats up." That way the line of communication is still open but you aren't asking anything of her. You aren't "in her business" your just asking how her day was and there is no pressure. [/QUOTE]
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