Last week we had difficult child's iep meeting (for those who have been around, you might remember they used to take more than one day and with a huge staff). The iep last about 45 minutes. The biggest shock of all was that the school believes he no longer needs a BIP!!!! They are saying he is handling tough situations really well. For my difficult child, who has been so violent a BIP has been necessary since 1st grade, this is huge!!!!!!! Trust me, he is still a huge difficult child but this one surprised both husband and me!