Father does NOT have cancer, but is still very sick. Everything is going well. I stand by my belief that I had misconceptions about many things. Please pray for my father and know that I am feeling rather silly at s ome of the conclusions I drew about the remaining members of my FOO. Please validate my knowledge. I am choosing not to share the private parts of what is going on here. I hope you all can appreciate my decision. Thanks to all my friends. May you all find peace.