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Should I answer his calls after he's incarcerated?
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 662420" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>This is typical manipulative behavior. Our D C's are counting on these tactics to make us feel guilty or afraid in hopes that we will give into them.</p><p>They can also be very subtle, one thing my son used to do when he was in jail was tell me they didn't feed him enough, that he was always hungry and if I would put money on his account he could get extra food from the commissary. I did put money on his account and then he would tell me it wasn't enough, he needed more. When I found out he was using it to buy junk food I put a stop to it.</p><p>Be prepared for him to say things like "you don't love me, if you loved me you would do A,B & C." Don't buy into it.</p><p>Now, you go out and do something wonderful for yourself, a manicure, a triple scoop of ice cream, a new outfit, something.....................just be good to yourself.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 662420, member: 18516"] This is typical manipulative behavior. Our D C's are counting on these tactics to make us feel guilty or afraid in hopes that we will give into them. They can also be very subtle, one thing my son used to do when he was in jail was tell me they didn't feed him enough, that he was always hungry and if I would put money on his account he could get extra food from the commissary. I did put money on his account and then he would tell me it wasn't enough, he needed more. When I found out he was using it to buy junk food I put a stop to it. Be prepared for him to say things like "you don't love me, if you loved me you would do A,B & C." Don't buy into it. Now, you go out and do something wonderful for yourself, a manicure, a triple scoop of ice cream, a new outfit, something.....................just be good to yourself. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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