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<blockquote data-quote="Masta" data-source="post: 68511" data-attributes="member: 308"><p>ohh.. weeping willow, I have thought of that too. these people just don't add up to me at all.</p><p></p><p>they keep saying they hope the baby is a boy so this child can carry on the family name since b/f is the only son in the family. so they have bought mainly baby boy clothes.(too bad if she miscarried) they would have been stuck with a ton of stuff because the crazy mother-in-law started buying way to soon. the mother-in-law has gone out and bought difficult child new maternity clothes from a maternity store (pricey) a few weeks ago and is telling difficult child she is showing. remember difficult child is 12-14 weeks preggers.</p><p></p><p>the father in-law is half native American/ half Spanish (but has no documentation to prove it). I have asked if their son (difficult child's b/f) can get free schooling since they are native Americans and the father-in-law says they are trying to get the documentation but his tribe scattered to all four directions of the States many yrs ago so chances are slim. </p><p></p><p>if difficult child asks me for help, I will buy for the baby. the baby has a crib they bought from a garage sale.. but no mattress so I will buy things that the baby needs.</p><p></p><p>difficult child thinks she has 3 built-in babysitters coz her b/f has 3 sisters. (I was the complete opposite when I had difficult child, I wouldn't trust anyone with her, I wanted to do everything myself, I wouldn't leave her with anyone till she was near 2yrs old, and even then I was very selective with who I left her with). difficult child makes jokes her b/f will be the one to change the baby since she carried it for nine months (mother-in-law told her that's how it should be and it worked for her). I am already imagining difficult child bringing the baby over for a visit and I will have to de-louse and put it in clean clothes as soon as it comes through my door. </p><p></p><p>donna723: to answer your question as to how many people live at the house my difficult child is paying half the rent for.... both b/f's parents and 3 sisters (one is supposedly moving out) they also have a friend of the b/f's who stays there frequently... then there is difficult child and her b/f. these people were paying their rent on their own and now they expect their 17yr son to pay for himself and difficult child. the rent they have to pay is approx $360 and I don't know if it includes utilities etc.</p><p></p><p>what im annoyed about is that difficult child could of stayed at her foster home till she was ready to leave, they State would of still given difficult child her $40 a month for clothing allowance, difficult child would of had to pay a small amount of rent to live in the foster parents basement (which she had all to herself). if she had chosen to move out and share an apartment with another female while going to school the State would of paid her $17 a day to help with rent. now she gets nothing and has to deal with this weird family. I know she will crack soon.. she cycles and cannot form real relationships (borderline personality disorder for sure) with anyone. I'm sure she will not be able to handle this situation for too long. my concern is where will she go once things get tough and what about the baby. the in-laws will take it for sure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Masta, post: 68511, member: 308"] ohh.. weeping willow, I have thought of that too. these people just don't add up to me at all. they keep saying they hope the baby is a boy so this child can carry on the family name since b/f is the only son in the family. so they have bought mainly baby boy clothes.(too bad if she miscarried) they would have been stuck with a ton of stuff because the crazy mother-in-law started buying way to soon. the mother-in-law has gone out and bought difficult child new maternity clothes from a maternity store (pricey) a few weeks ago and is telling difficult child she is showing. remember difficult child is 12-14 weeks preggers. the father in-law is half native American/ half Spanish (but has no documentation to prove it). I have asked if their son (difficult child's b/f) can get free schooling since they are native Americans and the father-in-law says they are trying to get the documentation but his tribe scattered to all four directions of the States many yrs ago so chances are slim. if difficult child asks me for help, I will buy for the baby. the baby has a crib they bought from a garage sale.. but no mattress so I will buy things that the baby needs. difficult child thinks she has 3 built-in babysitters coz her b/f has 3 sisters. (I was the complete opposite when I had difficult child, I wouldn't trust anyone with her, I wanted to do everything myself, I wouldn't leave her with anyone till she was near 2yrs old, and even then I was very selective with who I left her with). difficult child makes jokes her b/f will be the one to change the baby since she carried it for nine months (mother-in-law told her that's how it should be and it worked for her). I am already imagining difficult child bringing the baby over for a visit and I will have to de-louse and put it in clean clothes as soon as it comes through my door. donna723: to answer your question as to how many people live at the house my difficult child is paying half the rent for.... both b/f's parents and 3 sisters (one is supposedly moving out) they also have a friend of the b/f's who stays there frequently... then there is difficult child and her b/f. these people were paying their rent on their own and now they expect their 17yr son to pay for himself and difficult child. the rent they have to pay is approx $360 and I don't know if it includes utilities etc. what im annoyed about is that difficult child could of stayed at her foster home till she was ready to leave, they State would of still given difficult child her $40 a month for clothing allowance, difficult child would of had to pay a small amount of rent to live in the foster parents basement (which she had all to herself). if she had chosen to move out and share an apartment with another female while going to school the State would of paid her $17 a day to help with rent. now she gets nothing and has to deal with this weird family. I know she will crack soon.. she cycles and cannot form real relationships (borderline personality disorder for sure) with anyone. I'm sure she will not be able to handle this situation for too long. my concern is where will she go once things get tough and what about the baby. the in-laws will take it for sure. [/QUOTE]
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