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DavidH
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Had a great home visit took Justin back in while ago this eve.
He is off his medications now... wow can I tell a difference ... we shall see
However.. question is he brought up a concern / problem he is having with a counselor... I think it is the same one that told justin about the other counselor not even going to be a mom or be able to talk to him after discharge... 98% sure (I did not want to ask justin if so only because I did not want to bring that issue up again)
He is saying this guy is clearly there only for his job and does not care about any of the boys, justin lost more points in the last week with him on duty than he ever has since his arrival at Residential Treatment Center (RTC), justin said one night this guy was frustrated that a boy was snoring and he went over to the boy and held the Radio to his ear to wake him up so he would stop snoring.
Justin said he can nto talk to other boys about it, becuase that is agaisnt the rules to talk about staff behind the staff back, he also said they can not bring it up in group meetings as it is against the rules, and he said he does not feel our family theripist will do anything about it. He asked if I would say something to the guy.. I told him no.. it is not my place to talk directly to the counselors about a problem, I have a chain of command to follow.
He brought up other little things this guy does that makes it clear he does not give a hoot, he also said that he puts on a great front in front of the parents (me and others) on family days... but when no one is around he is very different
now my issue is .. do I bring this up to our family counsler... Justin is growin very tired of Residential Treatment Center (RTC).. ( well duh I expect that) he feels he is learned a ton and ready to prove it to me.. so I am half thinking he is very sensitive to anything not perfect....
I am back and forth on writing a email to the family theripist out there and asking her to look into this.. ??
He is off his medications now... wow can I tell a difference ... we shall see
However.. question is he brought up a concern / problem he is having with a counselor... I think it is the same one that told justin about the other counselor not even going to be a mom or be able to talk to him after discharge... 98% sure (I did not want to ask justin if so only because I did not want to bring that issue up again)
He is saying this guy is clearly there only for his job and does not care about any of the boys, justin lost more points in the last week with him on duty than he ever has since his arrival at Residential Treatment Center (RTC), justin said one night this guy was frustrated that a boy was snoring and he went over to the boy and held the Radio to his ear to wake him up so he would stop snoring.
Justin said he can nto talk to other boys about it, becuase that is agaisnt the rules to talk about staff behind the staff back, he also said they can not bring it up in group meetings as it is against the rules, and he said he does not feel our family theripist will do anything about it. He asked if I would say something to the guy.. I told him no.. it is not my place to talk directly to the counselors about a problem, I have a chain of command to follow.
He brought up other little things this guy does that makes it clear he does not give a hoot, he also said that he puts on a great front in front of the parents (me and others) on family days... but when no one is around he is very different
now my issue is .. do I bring this up to our family counsler... Justin is growin very tired of Residential Treatment Center (RTC).. ( well duh I expect that) he feels he is learned a ton and ready to prove it to me.. so I am half thinking he is very sensitive to anything not perfect....
I am back and forth on writing a email to the family theripist out there and asking her to look into this.. ??