Hi all, Well I have not heard from my son in a few days which always worries me....he did not respond to whether he got this apartment or not... I have been a little worried about the money we gave him but the check had not yet been cashed which was good. I am getting better at being patient and just waiting but it is hard still.... So today I got a call from the person running in the sober house he was at in another state. Apparently he called there last night and asked if they had a bed that he missed them and needed to get out of here. She asked him if he wanted her to call me and he said yes. So I was hopeful this morning that maybe he had reached bottom and was actually going to go back there of his own free will.. At least he reached out when he was having a hard time and was very upset. So I texted him today.... he didn't respond at first but finally did text me and tell me he is moving into the apartment here. If he is going to stay here that is a good thing. I suspect when he was down and out last night he had probably been drunk when he called them.... although they did not confirm that at all. So I don't know... leaves me hanging which I guess I just need to get used to. I did text him back after he told me about the apartment.. a couple of simple questions and a comment about how I had been thinking about him and nothing back... sigh. I guess I have to hold on to the fact that at least he had moments where he reached out for help......and continue to hope that he is ok. And that at least he may have a better place to live.