A few weeks ago I posted about how my sister in law wanted to go out for dinner on Christmas Eve again this year and that I did not want to go because it was not a good scene last year with difficult child. Luckily, mother in law agreed with me and it was decided that mother in law would cook for Christmas Eve because I am cooking for Christmas Day. The Sunday of Thanksgiving weekend brother in law called mother in law to tell her that they are "upset" with the decision that was not. "We're not upset that we have to come to your house," he told her. "We're upset that the decision was made without us." Honestly, I think that SHE is upset about it and that he really could care less where we eat that night. mother in law said to me that if we had made the decision to go out without them they would have been fine because it's what they wanted. It's not that the decision was made without them. It's that we made a decision that they don't like. So, the other day I sent her a text message to ask her how she was feeling because mother in law told me that sister in law had been sick, and to let sister in law know that an IEP meeting had finally been scheduled for easy child. No response. husband called brother in law last night because in order to set up our Christmas tree we have to move our loveseat into the garage and brother in law always comes over to help us move it out and then move it back in when we take the tree down. He never called back. Really, they're behaving this way because they aren't getting their way about what to do for Christmas Eve? Last year when we went out it was not what I wanted to do, but did I behave this way? No! I pasted a smile on my face and went because I am an adult and that is whatg adults do. She is showing her true colors. And they are not pretty!