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Sister out of house, what rights do we have with her stuff?
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<blockquote data-quote="Blighty" data-source="post: 714631" data-attributes="member: 21991"><p>I guess that getting rid of all her stuff is really the easy part and controllable; which is what your parents might be craving. They are trying to get busy and in control; maybe to mitgate the pain of all those emotions.</p><p></p><p>Maybe the discussion that is required (maybe not just right now) is how they are going to handle things if she tries to come back. What are their future boundaries and are they prepared to stick to them. If she does not come back, what does their relationship with her look like in the future...all these things might be hard to envisage and maybe some therapy would be helpful to bring that discussion out some time before anything else happens for which they are not prepared. If they know where they stand then they may be able to handle the situation better for them and for her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blighty, post: 714631, member: 21991"] I guess that getting rid of all her stuff is really the easy part and controllable; which is what your parents might be craving. They are trying to get busy and in control; maybe to mitgate the pain of all those emotions. Maybe the discussion that is required (maybe not just right now) is how they are going to handle things if she tries to come back. What are their future boundaries and are they prepared to stick to them. If she does not come back, what does their relationship with her look like in the future...all these things might be hard to envisage and maybe some therapy would be helpful to bring that discussion out some time before anything else happens for which they are not prepared. If they know where they stand then they may be able to handle the situation better for them and for her. [/QUOTE]
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