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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 665493" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I didnt really feel emotionally homeless. I did feel an empty void but I clearly recall that it was not just becsuse of foo. It was becsuse of my peer ridicule too. As for sense of community...I hated my childhood neighborhood on every level so I felt I belonged better in my new neighborhoods. To this day I have no use for materialism and would not live in an area like my old one even if I won the lottery. Id probably build a large solitary house in the country and hire alice from the brady bunch to take care of it:</p><p>Id make sure my kids had their fair share.</p><p>The void was something I talked about with my illinois soulmate because she felt one too.</p><p>Both of us have good lives now and no void. Mine started when my husband met me and made me feel worthwhile and helped me correctly see my foo. So do my kids.</p><p>Allowing ourselves to let healthy people love us and loving healthy people back is so different from loving people who think badly of us. Some abused people get frightened to love an emotionslly available partner. That makes it hatd to heal. My ex just continued the treatment of my foo.</p><p>Im relieved that this horrible void is gone. I know who I am without my foo trying to tell me im not who I know I am, if that makes sense.</p><p>I think of myself as an individual who created my own identity. I feel low connection to my dna roots.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 665493, member: 1550"] I didnt really feel emotionally homeless. I did feel an empty void but I clearly recall that it was not just becsuse of foo. It was becsuse of my peer ridicule too. As for sense of community...I hated my childhood neighborhood on every level so I felt I belonged better in my new neighborhoods. To this day I have no use for materialism and would not live in an area like my old one even if I won the lottery. Id probably build a large solitary house in the country and hire alice from the brady bunch to take care of it: Id make sure my kids had their fair share. The void was something I talked about with my illinois soulmate because she felt one too. Both of us have good lives now and no void. Mine started when my husband met me and made me feel worthwhile and helped me correctly see my foo. So do my kids. Allowing ourselves to let healthy people love us and loving healthy people back is so different from loving people who think badly of us. Some abused people get frightened to love an emotionslly available partner. That makes it hatd to heal. My ex just continued the treatment of my foo. Im relieved that this horrible void is gone. I know who I am without my foo trying to tell me im not who I know I am, if that makes sense. I think of myself as an individual who created my own identity. I feel low connection to my dna roots. [/QUOTE]
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