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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 42543" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Thanks ladies.</p><p></p><p>N wasn't mad at all about me snooping. She just shrugged and said that's a Mom's job. Took her a while to figure out who and what I was talking about.</p><p></p><p>N said that the email was when she and b/f were really fighting. It was during her pregnancy. Which means this is during a time when N was very unstable and without medications. She said "Oh, Mom. You mean <em> that?</em> I was just being overly dramatic and making it up to see if b/f would try to protect me." </p><p></p><p>Since N has never been an actress, I have to take what she says at face value. Plus the girl can't look me in the face and lie to me. The topic didn't upset her in the least to talk about. Nor did she bat an eye or hesitate in her answers. Responded in the same manner, tone of voice she would if she were telling me about the baby's day. </p><p></p><p>However, I do see where this would create conflict with b/f regardless.</p><p></p><p>Did it happen? It's possible at that time that N could have resorted to such behavior to get b/f's attention. (Honestly, I prefer to forget much of that time frame as it was nitemarish for all)</p><p></p><p>So for now, Mom's skeleton is still in the closet. I saw no reason to bring it into the conversation last night.</p><p></p><p>Evidently this was one of N's bipolar/borderline moments. (she's had many) At least I will have to go with that unless something else pops up to make me think overwise.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 42543, member: 84"] Thanks ladies. N wasn't mad at all about me snooping. She just shrugged and said that's a Mom's job. Took her a while to figure out who and what I was talking about. N said that the email was when she and b/f were really fighting. It was during her pregnancy. Which means this is during a time when N was very unstable and without medications. She said "Oh, Mom. You mean [i] that?[/i] I was just being overly dramatic and making it up to see if b/f would try to protect me." Since N has never been an actress, I have to take what she says at face value. Plus the girl can't look me in the face and lie to me. The topic didn't upset her in the least to talk about. Nor did she bat an eye or hesitate in her answers. Responded in the same manner, tone of voice she would if she were telling me about the baby's day. However, I do see where this would create conflict with b/f regardless. Did it happen? It's possible at that time that N could have resorted to such behavior to get b/f's attention. (Honestly, I prefer to forget much of that time frame as it was nitemarish for all) So for now, Mom's skeleton is still in the closet. I saw no reason to bring it into the conversation last night. Evidently this was one of N's bipolar/borderline moments. (she's had many) At least I will have to go with that unless something else pops up to make me think overwise. [/QUOTE]
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