Our difficult child destroyed her other bed when she was younger. So for a little over two years so was never made to sleep in her room. This obviously made her believe that the living room was in main room while her bedroom was merely storage space. Her mother never disciplined her and she can often be a feral child. I've been somewhat successful at changing the behavior of both for the better. So we got her a new bunkbed for Christmas. Yet she still refuses to sleep in her new bed. She claims its uncomfortable. I often have to carry her in kicking in screaming.