My step son is 21 and my daughter is 25. We have been going in circles over the subject of sleeping with there boy friend and girl friend under my roof. I have always said nooooo !!!!!!! its wrong. If you want to act like an adult move out and get your owe house. The problem is my wife does not care. I was never able to do it when I lived with my parents. I'm out of town a lot so they all due what they want. The other day I had a talk with my son and he said It will never happen again. I woke up yesterday and his girl friend was in his bed. I was so mad. Please what should I do.